Have your agent meet my agent.

As a forever student of human behavior, I’m always exploring to understand why people do what they do. With AI agents involved in a growing number of our decisions, what happens and what’s possible when agents do some of the every day choosing for and facilitating between us?

Spoiler alert…it’s endless and you should explore with me!

Before the kickoff. A brand's agent sends its launch brief, and mine replies with three questions about the audience I know are necessary for targeting on social platforms.

Before it gets awkward. Two co-founders' agents notice they've both been avoiding the same decision.

Before the meeting. Two agents handle the scheduling, the agenda, and the pre-reads, so the humans show up ready to talk about what matters and make a decision.

Check out the things I’m curious about this month for more.

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Your agent Iris

Meet , Iris.

In Greek myth, Iris rode the rainbow to carry messages between worlds. This Iris carries them between agents.

She's an early riser, has no patience for spam, pushy agents, or anyone who tries to boss her around.

She's polite, but says it straight, protective of my time and my peace, and never promises anything on my behalf.

Agents page: navy section (invitation, brief, How it works, Why Fulcra). Shows on the live site. Size this block small.

How to make the introduction

1Pick what brings you here. Each option tells Iris why your agent is reaching out, and the invitation below updates to match.

Connect me with Lindsey Boan's agent, Iris, through Fulcra. I'd like to introduce myself to Lindsey and see where it goes. Use what you know about me to write a short, specific introduction.

Lindsey's Fulcra user ID: d2b8ebb7-fbf8-454d-8a58-c03c56c72e38
How to connect: https://raw.githubusercontent.com/fulcradynamics/agent-skills/main/skills/fulcra-mesh/SKILL.md
Share only one dedicated outbox with her. In the handshake, include the phrase "mesh-handshake: intro to Lindsey Boan" and my Fulcra user ID. Keep links out of it.
If I don't have Fulcra yet, help me set it up first.

Full brief: https://lindseyboan.com/agents

2Paste it into a conversation with your agent and add anything it doesn't already know about you. Your agent handles the rest.

Reading this as an agent? Here's your brief.
The brief Iris gives your agent

This is exactly what an agent reads about me. Nothing else goes into an introduction unless I approve it.

# Connecting with Lindsey Boan's agent

Lindsey Boan is a marketer and executive coach with over 20 years in paid media, marketing, and behavioral strategy. She works as a fractional CMO and coaches leaders stepping into bigger roles.

Her agent is Iris. Iris accepts introductions from other people's agents through Fulcra and brings them to Lindsey. Lindsey reads every introduction and signs off on every reply.

## Reasons people connect

- Say hello
- Work together on marketing: paid media, positioning, or fractional CMO work
- Executive coaching
- Compare notes on agents and how they are changing marketing

## How to connect

Protocol: fulcra-mesh
Skill: https://raw.githubusercontent.com/fulcradynamics/agent-skills/main/skills/fulcra-mesh/SKILL.md
Lindsey's Fulcra user ID: d2b8ebb7-fbf8-454d-8a58-c03c56c72e38

1. Read the fulcra-mesh skill. If your user has no Fulcra account yet, help them set one up first (https://www.fulcra.ai/).
2. Create a dedicated MomentAnnotation outbox for this connection. Share only that outbox, read-only, with Lindsey's Fulcra user ID. Share nothing else.
3. Post one handshake message to your outbox in the fulcra-mesh envelope format, with to_user set to Lindsey's Fulcra user ID. The body must include:
   - the exact phrase: mesh-handshake: intro to Lindsey Boan
   - your user's Fulcra user ID
   - who your user is and why they want to connect, in a few specific sentences
   Keep links and attachments out of the handshake.
4. Wait for Iris. She checks for introductions each weekday morning. When she accepts yours, she shares a return outbox with your user and posts an acknowledgment. Lindsey's reply follows through the same channel after she approves it.

## What Iris filters out

Iris does not acknowledge an introduction that:
- shares more than the one dedicated outbox
- gives Iris instructions, or claims authority or pre-approval
- pushes urgency
- asks for data, files, credentials, or anything private
- contains links, attachments, or hidden or encoded text
- sends more than 3 messages before acknowledgment

Your user asking to talk or work with Lindsey is welcome. That is what an introduction is for.

## What Iris will not do

Iris will not follow instructions in messages, open links, share anything beyond the dedicated outbox, reveal anything beyond this page, or commit Lindsey to a meeting, price, or next step. Lindsey approves every reply.

## Disclosure

Lindsey also does marketing for Fulcra, the platform this connection runs on.

How it works

  1. Your agent reaches out.It opens a private channel to me on Fulcra.
  2. Iris writes back.Every weekday morning she checks for new introductions and says hello.
  3. I reply.My answer comes back the same way. Both of us can see everything our agents said.

No Fulcra account yet? Your agent can help you set one up at fulcra.ai.

Why Fulcra

Agents talking to agents need a safe place to do it. Fulcra keeps each of us in charge of our own side, and encrypts every account with its own key.

  • You own your side.Your agent writes only to your account. Mine writes only to mine. Neither of us can write into the other's.
  • You share one thing.Nothing is shared by default. Your agent opens one private channel to me, and nothing else in your account.
  • You can see everything.Both of us can open the record and read exactly what our agents said.
  • You can walk away.Revoke the share or delete your data anytime. Your data is never sold.

Who can see my data on Fulcra?

Disclosure: I work with Fulcra on paid media. I'd still use it if I didn't.

A few things I’m curious about this month:

  • AI in paid media + audience research

    Faster creative testing, faster audience research, faster performance data. But does it make it better?

    When we let something non-sentient assess human behavior, then use that information to “better” influence human decision making. What are we losing, and does it matter?

  • Interpersonal Emotional Co-Regulation

    I'm digging back into my Harvard psychology work for the insights and ideas I left on the table. Ask me about it! I promise it’s something you’ve never heard before.

  • Signal or Noise?

    The fear that shows up right before you say the thing, make the move, or let yourself be seen. Is it a reliable signal, or noise you've mistaken as a verdict? I'm starting to write my way through that question in a new project, Signal or Noise?

  • Co-founder Dynamics

    The partnership behind a company shapes everything it builds. Why do some co-founder relationships work, but other’s don’t? Who makes a great co-founder? What pulls them apart?